Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Leonie Stevens .... You'll never guess!

I was invited to attend a small business meeting of a group of business women the other week. Living and working as a corporate woman my daily "uniform" for want of a better word has been, for a number of years (in fact more years than I care to admit), a smart business jacket and slacks (more commonly known as "pants" these days). For many business women it appears to be the "expected" standard style of dress.

But I woke up this morning, wanting to do something different. Sometimes I feel a little mischievous! So I wore a lovely slightly flared ankle length skirt with a smart edge to edge jacket over a cami. For comfort I wore my favourite boots.

Let me tell you I felt great. The reflection in the mirror also confirmed that feeling. Compliments were expressed, even by my colleague in the government, and it takes a lot for her to find something good to commend.

That got me thinking. As a matter of course, we tend to sometimes allow ourselves to become, well - not really boring, but lacking in a bit of imagination.

Do you know because I looked good in the mirror (even side and back view!!), I "felt" good. And that feeling has lasted all day.

I intend to do this sort of thing more often. To step out of the "comfort zone" as far as corporate wear is concerned, and wear slightly more feminine clothing, especially when the occasion allows.
© 2009 Leonie Stevens, Australia

Saturday, April 18, 2009

A little bit of wisdom?


How
can we justify claiming that we're fighting for acceptance,
and yet show lack of empathy towards others.


Disillusionment will not only erode self confidence of another person,
but can destroy any creativeness.


© 2006 Rose Davida, UK

Lies will only hurt people.
When the lies stop, the healing begins.


If you look at the essence of life,
it's about being grateful for that unique life and living every day and every moment .


Life isn't about where we're at,
but more about our behaviour
how we deal with circumstances
and how we treat people (including ourselves).


© 2007, Autumn Parry, Australia